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2019 has not been the best of years. January started with an exploding washing machine. In February I was diagnosed with Alopecia after the hairdresser noticed lots of hair patches. This ended up with some very stressful and uncertain months ahead. We experienced lots of other things breaking, some of which we still cannot afford to put right. My son didn’t get a place at the nursery, which is a short walk away and this put a lot of strain on us having to travel to another. June was the worst of all months when we unexpectedly lost J. Our hearts were broken and I don’t think we will ever fully come to terms with what happened. September we had lots of stress as we tried to rebook our holiday after Thomas Cook went under. It was a very stressful period indeed. October I fractured my ankle and am still waiting on testing to see when I can run again. 





2019 also brought with it some fantastic achievements for my children. Little Man grew confident with his swimming and has finished the year waiting for a place to move up to the next stage. They have had to approve this due to his age as he shouldn’t move until he is 4 but he is competent enough to do so. My eldest daughter was selected to train for her gymnastics club so we now spend most evenings with her training. My youngest daughter has finally found her passion. She takes part in a musical drama club and watching her face lit up as she performs on stage was certainly one of my highlights this year.

With running I completed my furthest distance to date of 65 miles. Finished in 4th place at a 24hour race with my ultra hubby. Finally received my first trophy for finishing second lady in a local ultra race and surprised myself with running from Manchester to Liverpool in blazing heat! I knocked a huge chunk of time off my marathon PB and broke the 4.30 barrier. I really feel I could have run under 4 hours had my ankle have not been broken. My parkrun time was also smashed finishing the year on 25.03. I will get under 25 minutes when I get my fitness back.


My hair grew back during the last half of 2019 which I am so incredibly grateful for, although I am also on edge wondering if it will fall out again. We also welcomed 4 new additions to our house. A fish which my eldest daughter got as a birthday present. Joey the Guinea Pig who is the sweetest thing ever and very talkative. Finally our two boys A and B, our labrador puppies who next year I hope to start running with. 


2019 has been a tough year and one I am glad to see the end of but I am also a little sad as it will be the last year that we had J. I have no idea what 2020 will bring, we are hoping for a low key one with as little drama as possible but with two labrador puppies running around who knows if that is likely!

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2015 has been a very challenging year for lots of reasons.  It started off great, had a rubbish middle and seems to be ending well.  We have had wonderful holidays as a family, visited some amazing places on day trips and created some beautiful memories for the girls.

Looking back through my photos and posts of 2015 there seem to be many involving mud and muddy puddles.  I have loved looking back through all my running accomplishments with running every distance up to and including a marathon, whilst pregnant.  I am looking forward to putting on my running shoes again in 2016. 

The biggest surprise of 2015 has been Thing 3.  I feel really lucky to be pregnant for a third time and hope that 2016 brings a healthy baby.  I am excited to find out if Thing 3 is a boy or girl, and also to discover how big they are going to be.  I wonder if the predictions will be correct?

I have decided not to set a resolution but instead make a few changes.  I hope 2016 brings us the safe arrival of Thing 3, and that we continue to make as many memories as a family as 2015 did.


I am wanting to use Instagram more as I love capturing the thing I love from each day on there and it has been great looking back through my photos.  According to Instagram these are my most popular photos from 2015.



Wishing everyone a Happy 2016!


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What a year 2014 has been.

looking part at 2014 part 1

I have spent the past few days looking through photos and remembering the year that has been.  I have read some of my blog posts and read some of my fellow bloggers as they also reflect on 2014.  It has certainly been a very mixed year for me and some of it I am still trying to come to terms with. 

2014 started with me working away from home a lot.  Rarely seeing the girls, who were both in full time [8am-6pm, 5 days a week] nursery.  Putting them straight to bed when I got home on a weekday and spending the weekends either making up for the guilt I was feeling for working all week or finishing reports etc. that needed doing for work.  Work took over everything and whilst I enjoyed my job, the company I worked for had no respect or interest in family values.  This topped with a manager who bullied me to one of the lowest points I have ever been in my whole life and HR who denied all instance and refused to take action left me with very little choice but to leave.  I found another job but within days of starting the company it was taken over by a larger organisation and they reduced the UK workforce, making me redundant [the second time within 9 months].  Needless to say by the end of this my confidence and self esteem were at an all time low.

I made a decision to not put myself into that position again.  The industry I was working in had become unstable, and I was missing out on so much of the girls.  I felt guilty for working and wanted to do something which I not only loved but could fit around the girls, and not fit the girls around work.  Maybe when the girls are older or if the right position came along I might reconsider the industry again, but for now my focus is on my family.

For the past 7 months I have been working freelance, writing, social media management and consultation for various companies and of course blogging.  I am not going to pretend it is easy but it is by far more rewarding.  The girls come first and I get to do something I really love.  In September I also took on the editors positions of Mumsnet Local Sheffield and Mumsnet Local South Yorkshire.  I love these editor roles and hope to expand on them more in 2015.

looking part at 2014 part 2

2014 saw a big change in my work and also in our family.  We adopted spotty dog from the RSPCA and she has certainly made herself known.  We also have 3 goldfish Nuggets, Fingers and Snow White.  My youngest gave up her dummy and came out of nappies.  My eldest left pre school and started big school. 

We went on holiday to Butlins, Scotland, Scarborough and on a Disney Cruise around the Med.  The girls and I attended numerous shows and events and are grateful for each one we attended.  We raised money for Sport relief with Team Honk and I completed the Yorkshire 3 Peaks challenge.  We even ran through rainbows to raise money for charity.  I became part of #teamchallenge10 and am now running at least twice a week.  

I met the mayor of Rotherham and the girls met Mr Bloom.  My eldest dream came true when she got to ride a donkey, something she has wanted to do for a long time.  The friendship between the girls has grown as has their imagination and love for imaginative play.  They continue to love mud, muddy puddles and of course messy play and we celebrated this by writing the official poem for national mud week.

looking part at 2014 part 3

As I look back over the photos of 2014, I see lots of smiles and happy faces.  The girls have created lots of memories.  I am slowly getting over the horror at the start of the year with work and building back my confidence.  I have had time to reflect and remember the reason I started blogging, to capture my precious Mummy moments and as 2015 begins I am hoping to do more of this.  More blogging about the girls and our life.  More to capture those precious moments and more to create memories for my girls.  I am wanting to take things back to the beginning.  Back to when I first fell in love with blogging and back to why I started blogging in the first place.  

2015 will therefore be a restart.  A restart for my work, a restart in my education as I begin my diploma and a restart for the blog.  I am looking forward to restarting the blog and restarting my work.  I am looking forward to watching the girls grow and seeing their relationship develop more.  There will be more messy play, more baking and of course more muddy puddles.  

2015 will see me take part in my first 10K race and my first half marathon, booked for June.  I am hoping to do the colour run again and possibly the Zombie run.  I have my place booked for Britmums and Blog on as I develop the blog and learn new skills.  I will be looking at other Blog conferences and meet ups and look forward to discovering new blogs.  Of course the big thing we are all really excited for in 2015 is our family holiday to Portugal with James Villas which I won at Britmums.  I still cannot believe I won a holiday and am going to apologies in advance for mentioning it over the next year and of course the pictures I will be taking whilst there.

As 2014 draws to an end I want to thank you all for reading my blog.  To thank all those who have supported me though some very dark times and hope you are as excited about the restart in 2015 as I am.


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2012 has been an amazing year for me.  I want to start though with looking back on 2011 from July, helps to explain why 2012 was so great.

July 2011 saw my return to work following a year MAT leave with my eldest daughter.  The next few months saw some changes and incredibly stressful times.  The first in August as we put our house up for sale after finding our dream home closer to our family.  September/October saw my job be made redundant and frantically searching for another.  After several interviews, assessment centres, presentations and role plays I finally secured a job the week before Christmas.  Oh and not forgetting discovering that I would be having a baby.

2012 therefore was a welcome change and a lot less stressful.  I started my new job, although within the same company.  With the accumulation of holiday days plus training courses and meetings I worked a handful of days before MAT leave started.  

Our dream house sold, the day before we sold ours.  We had the highest bid in an auction but the vendor would not sell to us so we lost another property we liked.  Then our dream house came back on the market, the original one we saw back in 2011.  We successfully managed to secure it and moved into it when our youngest was 2 weeks old exactly.

We had our first holiday as a family and our youngest had her first Christmas.  Our daughters are growing up so beautifully I cannot wait to watch them develop and see what 2013 brings for us as a family.

I want to wish all my followers a very happy new year and here is to the start of something new.

2012 review

This day I love the start of something new

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My name is Leyla, also known as Mum to my 3 humans and dog Mum to J. I have a passion for the outdoors and love to run. I can often be found off road exploring the trails and fells and covering distances all the way up to 50 miles. As a family we love travelling and discovering new adventures, as I try and run around the world!

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