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During my pregnancy I had to wear a support band, I had torn all my abdominal muscles and suffered with diastasis recti and this was an attempt to not make the situation worse. Once little man was born I remember standing up and feeling like I could not breathe. My whole abdominal area felt strange, and not because I had just had a baby. I felt like nothing was supported internally and the breathing pain got worse.

It was discovered that because of the damage I had caused to my abdominal muscles during pregnancy and the fact they had been supported for nine months, going straight to no support was not advised. Instead I needed to invest in a waist trainer and support until, at the very least, the diastasis recti began to heal and my abdominal muscles regained strength.

I discovered waist trainers come in all shapes and sizes. There are ones which fasten at the front, others at the back, some with Velcro and some with clasps. Others you put on like a vests and others are like large bands. A waist trainer needs to suit your individual needs and style. The best thing is to try them. I found that I personally prefer a vest or corset style, as I found others would ride up and irritate me as the day went on. I found the type of material also mattered, some proving too itchy and others making me sweat too much.


Waist trainers are not only good for providing the support needed after pregnancy, but also help give your body shape. Whilst not important for some, other people feel quite down about their post pregnancy body shape and something like a waist trainer can help give you a confidence boost. A good waist trainer is therefore worth the investment for after pregnancy.

All words are my own opinion 
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If you read my post 29th, you will know I was really hoping for Thing 3 to arrive on this date.  As it is I am able to write a 39 week update.  

It has been one of those strange weeks.  I fitted all the car seats, tidied the house and generally enjoyed time to myself.  Even making  a massage appointment for this week.  Both dogs now seem protective and have a need to be with me.


Bump is 2/5 engaged and still following the growth curve.  Although whilst the midwife was measuring, baby kept wiggling which altered the shape and size of bump.


I generally feel ok, just swollen legs.  I am trying to make the most of the time left.  Thing 3 seems happy which is what matters.


This bump photo is at 38wks+6days, the day things changed.  


At 38wks and 5days I was admitted to triage, they suspected my waters had broke but could not be certain.  No contractions but they confirmed I had lost my plug.  Baby also gone back to back.  Spent the day trying to get baby to turn.

38wks and 6days at 6pm contractions start every 4 minutes but are not too strong and at 11.30pm have stopped.  Heavy bleeding starts. 

39wks admitted to hospital with irregular contractions that are very strong but short lasting and heavy bleeding.  Baby is checked and said to be fine but fully engaged, back to back.  I am discharged at 10.30 am and told to come back if my contractions become regular, every 2-3 minutes and last more than 45 seconds.  My contractions never became regular and I did not go back into hospital.  We left the hospital confused.  


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J has been very protective of me this week.  He does not like it when I am not in his sight, and has started dragging his bed with him as he follows me around the house.  When I sit still he puts his head on my lap, as if he is listening to Thing 3.

J and bump

I now only fit into Jogging bottoms, or PJ.  My legs are getting more and more swollen and my knees are around 4 times their original size.  Bump has also dropped which means my tops also no longer fit and my coat will not fasten, but at this point it seems very little point to shop for more maternity clothes.

Bump at 38 weeks


Thing 3 seems to be getting more active, or I am just able to feel more of their movements.  Sitting for too long makes my legs go numb due to the size of the bump and I also find standing for long periods painful.  I am getting a lot of lower back pain recently, and more frequent Braxton Hicks.  

It seems scary to think that the most I have left is 4 weeks.  As labour draws closer I keep having flash backs to my previous labours which is making me nervous.  I am starting to get scared which is not a good thing.  I am doing the best I can to put myself in a more positive mindset.

The girls seem to have ramped up their excitement this week, as in their heads baby is coming in March.  They have worked out it is March next week and so to them baby is coming next week.  I am starting to wonder myself when baby will arrive.  My eldest arrived at 39 weeks and my youngest a day late, so it really could be any day.  I would like to do another bump update, as I am not sure I am quite ready just yet!
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37 weeks, and now classed as full term!

37 weeks


I simply cannot believe it, that we have come this far and that we have reached this point.  It still feels like yesterday that those pink lines appeared on that stick.

This pregnancy has been completely different to my other two, not that they were identical but this one seems the complete polar opposite.  I still believe we will have another girl joining us, I guess we will find out soon enough.  I am now trying to enjoy the last few days/weeks/hours? of pregnancy I have left.  Trying to enjoy and add to my memory, every kick, hiccup and movement.  Trying to just take time for me and baby.

I am trying my best not to think about labour, in fact every time I do I get nervous and feel sick.  The labour with my youngest is still fresh in my memory, and to say I am dreading the experience for a third time would be a complete understatement.  I am very nervous and scared.  

After weighing up facts, figures and everything else I have finally made my decision on feeding baby, and I may share this later.  I feel happy with my decision and choice and know it is right not only for me but for my family too.

37 weeks +1


This past week has not really seen any changes from the last update.  I am still getting strong downward surges and Braxton Hicks.  Heartburn seems to be a common thing at the moment, and I seem to have it more than I do not.

To answer the most common question at the moment, No I am not fed up and No I am not ready.  I am not fed up of pregnancy, I am fed up of not being able to do things but not of pregnancy and am more than happy for baby to stay put.  I decided to put together a short video


I am starting to get really tired as I cannot sleep for more than 2 hours without waking up for the toilet.  I also cannot turn over in my sleep and have to wake up to do so.  

Fingers crossed I have another bump update next week as I am not quite ready yet!
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I have been very nervous about today for quite some time.  Today was the day of our 36 week scan, the day that decisions would be made and a day that could have seen Thing 3 arrive into the world earlier than originally thought.

I was very apprehensive waiting for the scan, more so than the 12 week scan when you wonder if you are really pregnant.  They called us into the room and measurements were taken before we were allowed to see Thing 3 again.  Head is still down and low, and their hand is still in front of their face.  I hope they move it before delivery.  Thing 3 was well behaved and it did not take long at all for all measurements to be taken.  Then came the apprehensive wait.

After what felt like hours, the midwife called us into room 4.  She said baby weighs 6lbs and everything was exactly where it should be.  Everything was normal and following the correct chart.  After having all the bloods and routine tests for 36 weeks I was then told to wait for the consultant.  The consultant discharged me from hospital and said that we would just leave things to nature.  Which now means, no planned C section, no induction and I am now allowed to go over my due date.  Of course, if something happens between now and then then this would change, but as things currently stand we just wait and see what happens.

I am really happy and relived, I was dreading the thought of an induction and am just happy that things can progress as normal.  As things currently stand if baby came on time, they would be the smallest of my three that is if all the measurements are correct.

Everything appears to now be in place ready for Thing 3 to arrive, they have even tested their bedside crib out for size this week

bump and bedding

I am slowly feeling more relaxed, now the thought of an induction or C section has been taken away and can enjoy the final few weeks/days of pregnancy.

Bump at 36 weeks

Thing 3 seems really active and has such strong movements, still really dislikes to be touched!  They have frequent hiccups, which I have to say is my favourite movement.  Braxton Hicks are still in full force and getting much stronger with each day.  I cannot quite believe that next week baby is considered full term!


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To say I have been a little worried about this half term would be an understatement.  Normally I have half term all planned including day trips for the girls, but this time things are slightly different.  Pregnancy would not normally stop me, but this time I do not feel up to venturing too far.  Baby is already 3/5 engaged and I actually feel as if they have dropped even more and so I want to stay close to home.  

My youngest daughter asked today if it is going to rain everyday of the school holidays, I can see her point.  It has so far been a very wet, miserable school holidays and trying to find ways to entertain the girls is limiting.  We are now almost half way through and I wanted to capture what we have been up to.  

Our NumberBundle boxes have been amazing at keeping the girls entertained, and a review is coming shortly

big or small?

We have had dress up fun, watched DVD and had a Maya the Bee themed day

bee smiles

We have even got the last few things ready for Thing 3.

bump and bed

Mornings have been spent taking it easy, which makes a welcome change from the normal school rush.  The girls love playing in water and love the chance to have a bath in the morning.  It also gives me time to relax.

daughter after bath

I asked the girls what they wanted to do during half term and one of the requests was to the local soft play.  I miss chasing them through the soft play, but they seemed to have lots of fun running around and even making friends!

play at soft play

Today however I think they had got a bit fed up of playing inside and I got the impression they wanted to ride their bikes!  Whilst we did venture out, they didn't stay out long as the rain came pouring down.

ride bikes

The girls are off to stay with Grandma tomorrow as I have to go into hospital.  I am really nervous about how tomorrow will go but I am trying to look at the positive, another chance to see Thing 3!

Half way through half term already and whilst the weather may have been rubbish the girls seem to be having fun!

This day I love the first half of half term.
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My name is Leyla, also known as Mum to my 3 humans and dog Mum to J. I have a passion for the outdoors and love to run. I can often be found off road exploring the trails and fells and covering distances all the way up to 50 miles. As a family we love travelling and discovering new adventures, as I try and run around the world!

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