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Today was my due date for Thing 3, instead they made a rather dramatic entry into the world and are now 1 week old!  I still cannot believe a whole week has gone past.


We are slowly adjusting to life with a newborn again, one who appears to be very much nocturnal.  I spend any time that baby sleeps sleeping, as things can wait for a while.  I am just trying to absorb as much newborn as I can, and whilst I can.

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Thing 3 is doing really well.  The girls are simply besotted by baby and want to help with everything.  They are adjusting too, and we are trying to get things back to normal for them as much as possible.  Just taking every day as it comes.

Sleep is almost non existent, with Thing 3 sleeping for around 20 minutes and then waking to be fed for 10 minutes.  I know this won't last forever and just make the most of the newborn cuddles.  


This past week has therefore been about finding our feet as a family of five and sleeping whenever we can.  Normality will return soon enough, but for now time is going far too quick and I just want to make the most of it.


This day I love the first week
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I thought I should explain my absence from the computer lately.  

At 10.30 am on Wednesday morning I had had enough.  Having spent all night with strong contractions I was disappointed to be sent home from hospital to be told to return if they became regular and established.  You can read more on my 39 week update.

My contractions never became regular and we never went back to hospital.  What happened was completely unexpected.

When I got home I went to bed for an hour, still having infrequent but strong contractions.  Around 12.30 they started to get stronger and I had a really bad back breaking pain in my lower back.  My contractions were still completely random, 8 minutes, 2 minutes, 5 minutes, 10 minutes there was no pattern.  I spent an hour in the shower, the water on my back really helped but the steam started to get too much and I had to get out.

I can remember looking at the clock at 2pm and really wanting to push.  Only the contractions still were really infrequent and had not formed any pattern.  By now I was in a lot of pain, not only with strong contractions but the pain in my back had intensified and would not go.  My husband kept coming up to check on me but could not stay for any length of time as my youngest needed him and I did not want her to see me in so much pain.

My Mum arrived at 3.40 with my eldest having collected her from school.  What happened next is a slight blur, I can just remember the pain and my body trying to counteract the desire to push.  I was really confused and worried.

Almost an hour later the community midwives arrived and my waters broke.  I knew that baby was back to back, and having heard that they usually need extra help to be delivered, I was panicking.  I can remember every push, and every pain from then on.  I listened to the midwives who were monitoring baby very closely.  After 20 minutes of pushing baby arrived, back to back.

Introducing Thing 3

I had Thing 3 at home in bed with no pain relief, no gas and air and with my Mum and Husband present.  The girls downstairs with Granddad.  It was far from the birth I had planned and the water birth I so desired, but I was beyond relived that Thing 3 had arrived safely and with no help.  I was also incredibly shocked to discover that although Thing 3 had been back to back I had no tear and required no stitches.  

I was allowed delayed cord clamping, which is something I was denied with the girls, and Thing 3 came straight for skin to skin.  After all the worry about a big baby, Thing 3 is the smallest of all my children.  The birth might have been far from perfect, but the calm atmosphere afterwards was an amazing experience.  

The midwives did an amazing job of cleaning up, even changing the bed sheets, and after a shower I got back in my bed and cuddled Thing 3.  The girls came upstairs to meet their new sibling and we were left in peace as a family of 5. 

This day I love expect the unexpected. 
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There is something rather special about shopping for a new baby.  I had forgotten all the little decisions that need to be made, and the thought process that went into buying our original pushchair nearly 6 years ago.  At that time I drove a Mini, worked full time and had no other children.  My only consideration was 'Can it fit in my boot?' and 'does it push nice?'.  Fast forward to today, I drive a 'Mummy car' [7seater], and have 2 other children, plus 2 dogs!

Pushchairs have come a long way in those 6 years since I first started looking.  They fold smaller, have dedicated uses and some can even be   Before I discovered Thing 3 would be joining us I had two pushchairs firmly on my wish list, should we ever be lucky enough for another baby.

The first I have been lucky enough to review, the Joolz Day and the second I fell in love with the second I saw it, the Egg.

Joolz Joolz Day Studio Noir
Joolz Day
The Joolz day I was lucky enough to review, on a loan basis and I absolutely loved it. I could not believe how beautiful it was to push.  I remember when I wrote the post, that is would be a serious contender if we ever had another baby





Egg Stroller Gotham Black/Mirror Frame

I am not going to lie, when I first saw a picture of the egg I wanted another baby just so I could have that pushchair.  The thing is I have only ever seen pictures, and never actually seen the Egg in real life.  I am wanting to find one just so I can have a play with it!





4Moms Origami Pushchair With Silver Seat Liner

If money was no object I think this would be the pushchair for me.  When I first looked at pushchairs 6 years ago I would have thought you were crazy if you had told me there was a pushchair with a phone charger built in.  Power assisted folding, lights and a dashboard with temperature and speed, this is a truly modern pushchair and one for all gadget lovers like me.



Baby Jogger Summit X3 Single Black

Whilst the above three pushchairs are great for everyday use, I also have to think about my passion for running.  When baby is 6 months old I plan to take them running with me and for that I need a running pushchair.  I have many pushchairs on my running wish list, but one I keep coming back to is the Baby Jogger.





ABC Design Takeoff Stroller

As baby gets older I will start looking at strollers.  One which I can fold quickly and simply put in the boot of the car for those trips to the shops, or for a quick dog walk.  A nice neat small fold and easy to push would be the main priorities, something like the ABC design Takeoff stroller.






What are your pushchair requirements?  Are you like me and have multiple wish lists? 
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Thing 3 is set to make their appearance into our lives any day now.  After our 36 weeks scan it now feels like we can finish those last minute preparations

Stock Up on Essentials

I intend to use a mixture of both cloth and disposable nappies.  I have washed and strip washed all cloth nappies and got them all ready in the nursery.  With disposable nappies you should be prepared to be using as many as twelve per day and these are all ready in the nursery.  You can never have too many.  We have a moses basket downstairs, which was kindly gifted to us by a friend and we have also been gifted clothing bundles, to see us through the first 3 months.

Prepare the House

Nesting instincts seem to kick in before baby arrives and you find yourself cleaning everything from skirting boards to behind the radiators.  We have finished the nursery and built the cot, even though baby will be sleeping in our room for the first 6 months it still helps to be prepared.  J is used to the arrival of babies but this will be a first for spotty dog.  We have been trying to prepare our pets for Thing 3 arrival as much as we can, although I think J already knows.

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Pack a Hospital Bag

I posted earlier and also on YouTube about how to pack a hospital bag.  It is a good idea to have one ready as you never know when labour will begin.  My hospital bag is ready and I have also ensured my husband knows where it is, just in case.  

Think Ahead to Save Time in the Future

When you are looking after a child, it can be difficult to find time to do anything else.  I have had to plan for what will happen if I go into labour whilst the girls are in school.  Put plans in place for childcare if it is during the night.  Not only this but also thinking about the first few days with a newborn.  We have frozen meals in the freezer and plans in place to help with the girls.  It really does help to prepare in advance for the arrival of a new baby.
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As 2015 begins to come to an end it slowly is dawning upon me that in 2016 we will be adding another addition to the family.  Once Christmas is over with I only have 10 weeks to go at the very most until Thing 3 arrives.  I have been told that I am not allowed to go past my due date although this may change at the scan in February, when a delivery plan is put into place.

I have a few bits and pieces left to get for Thing 3 and the very fast approaching arrival and have been doing a lot of shopping online to find not only the best deals but also places where I can buy everything from.  I much prefer a one stop shop than having to get things from different places.  One such site I have been looking at is Online4Baby who offer everything I need.  



The range available at Online4baby really impressed me as did the 1 hour delivery slots and of course the offers available.  One of the big items I need is somewhere for Thing3 to sleep when they visit my Mum and Dads house.  My Mum used to have a spare cot at her house but we no longer have it.  Not wanting to spend a huge amount of money a travel cot would be perfect.  they could use the travel cot for sleeping but it could also double up as a play pen during the day.  A travel cot can  be folded away after use, meaning it won;t take up as much space as a normal cot would do. 

My Mum also needs toys for Thing3 such as an activity mat and general baby toys.  I have a few from when the girls were little but not many.  In the New Year I plan to look at pushchairs and car seats as this is the final big items from my list.  Having just bought a new 7 seater car we can now accommodate Thing 3 and a pushchair in the car.  We could not have done this in my old car.



Things are slowly coming together, I am hoping the flooring will be finished soon, then I can start unpacking the few boxes of the girls things that are left.  t maybe that I discover I need a few more bits, at least I know where to get them from this time!

This is a collaborative post
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The girls are very excited for Things 3 arrival.  They keep asking when baby is going to arrive and how big baby is today.  They have a tape measure and keep checking to see how big baby is.  I am so pleased they are excited for Thing 3 arrival and are wanting to get involved with baby.

I am doing everything I can to prepare them for the arrival of Thing 3 and so was really excited when Orchard Toys got in touch about one of their games, New baby Lotto.  We have several Lotto style games at home and so both girls are familiar with how to play, but they were very excited that the Orchard Toys New baby Lotto was about their new baby arriving.


The first time you play New baby Lotto you need to pop out the cards from the sheet but subsequent games you are ready to go straight away.  The girls selected their game cards.  Each card has a different theme related to the care of a new baby.  Bath time, sleep, play and feed.  You then have to try and remember where the smaller cards are in order to fill up your play card.

We placed the cards face down on the table and began to concentrate on the placement of them.


I personally love this type of game as it helps build concentration skills in children and gets them thinking, working on their memory.  The girls soon started filling up their cards and talking about the items they picked up, this is my baby bottle, this is a teddy for my baby, when the baby comes I can bath them too, when the baby comes I can help feed them.  It was lovely hearing this interaction from the girls and listening to how excited they are for the baby to arrive


The game continues until someone completes the card, but the girls do not seem to mind how long the game takes as they enjoy playing.  


Orchard Toys New baby Lotto has certainly got the girls talking more about the arrival of Thing 3 and has helped to prepare them for all the things a new born might need.  A really wonderful game to play together.

Thanks to Orchard toys for sending New Baby Lotto for us to play, all words are my own opinion. 




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My name is Leyla, also known as Mum to my 3 humans and dog Mum to J. I have a passion for the outdoors and love to run. I can often be found off road exploring the trails and fells and covering distances all the way up to 50 miles. As a family we love travelling and discovering new adventures, as I try and run around the world!

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