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During my pregnancy I had to wear a support band, I had torn all my abdominal muscles and suffered with diastasis recti and this was an attempt to not make the situation worse. Once little man was born I remember standing up and feeling like I could not breathe. My whole abdominal area felt strange, and not because I had just had a baby. I felt like nothing was supported internally and the breathing pain got worse.

It was discovered that because of the damage I had caused to my abdominal muscles during pregnancy and the fact they had been supported for nine months, going straight to no support was not advised. Instead I needed to invest in a waist trainer and support until, at the very least, the diastasis recti began to heal and my abdominal muscles regained strength.

I discovered waist trainers come in all shapes and sizes. There are ones which fasten at the front, others at the back, some with Velcro and some with clasps. Others you put on like a vests and others are like large bands. A waist trainer needs to suit your individual needs and style. The best thing is to try them. I found that I personally prefer a vest or corset style, as I found others would ride up and irritate me as the day went on. I found the type of material also mattered, some proving too itchy and others making me sweat too much.


Waist trainers are not only good for providing the support needed after pregnancy, but also help give your body shape. Whilst not important for some, other people feel quite down about their post pregnancy body shape and something like a waist trainer can help give you a confidence boost. A good waist trainer is therefore worth the investment for after pregnancy.

All words are my own opinion 
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If you read my post 29th, you will know I was really hoping for Thing 3 to arrive on this date.  As it is I am able to write a 39 week update.  

It has been one of those strange weeks.  I fitted all the car seats, tidied the house and generally enjoyed time to myself.  Even making  a massage appointment for this week.  Both dogs now seem protective and have a need to be with me.


Bump is 2/5 engaged and still following the growth curve.  Although whilst the midwife was measuring, baby kept wiggling which altered the shape and size of bump.


I generally feel ok, just swollen legs.  I am trying to make the most of the time left.  Thing 3 seems happy which is what matters.


This bump photo is at 38wks+6days, the day things changed.  


At 38wks and 5days I was admitted to triage, they suspected my waters had broke but could not be certain.  No contractions but they confirmed I had lost my plug.  Baby also gone back to back.  Spent the day trying to get baby to turn.

38wks and 6days at 6pm contractions start every 4 minutes but are not too strong and at 11.30pm have stopped.  Heavy bleeding starts. 

39wks admitted to hospital with irregular contractions that are very strong but short lasting and heavy bleeding.  Baby is checked and said to be fine but fully engaged, back to back.  I am discharged at 10.30 am and told to come back if my contractions become regular, every 2-3 minutes and last more than 45 seconds.  My contractions never became regular and I did not go back into hospital.  We left the hospital confused.  


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J has been very protective of me this week.  He does not like it when I am not in his sight, and has started dragging his bed with him as he follows me around the house.  When I sit still he puts his head on my lap, as if he is listening to Thing 3.

J and bump

I now only fit into Jogging bottoms, or PJ.  My legs are getting more and more swollen and my knees are around 4 times their original size.  Bump has also dropped which means my tops also no longer fit and my coat will not fasten, but at this point it seems very little point to shop for more maternity clothes.

Bump at 38 weeks


Thing 3 seems to be getting more active, or I am just able to feel more of their movements.  Sitting for too long makes my legs go numb due to the size of the bump and I also find standing for long periods painful.  I am getting a lot of lower back pain recently, and more frequent Braxton Hicks.  

It seems scary to think that the most I have left is 4 weeks.  As labour draws closer I keep having flash backs to my previous labours which is making me nervous.  I am starting to get scared which is not a good thing.  I am doing the best I can to put myself in a more positive mindset.

The girls seem to have ramped up their excitement this week, as in their heads baby is coming in March.  They have worked out it is March next week and so to them baby is coming next week.  I am starting to wonder myself when baby will arrive.  My eldest arrived at 39 weeks and my youngest a day late, so it really could be any day.  I would like to do another bump update, as I am not sure I am quite ready just yet!
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37 weeks, and now classed as full term!

37 weeks


I simply cannot believe it, that we have come this far and that we have reached this point.  It still feels like yesterday that those pink lines appeared on that stick.

This pregnancy has been completely different to my other two, not that they were identical but this one seems the complete polar opposite.  I still believe we will have another girl joining us, I guess we will find out soon enough.  I am now trying to enjoy the last few days/weeks/hours? of pregnancy I have left.  Trying to enjoy and add to my memory, every kick, hiccup and movement.  Trying to just take time for me and baby.

I am trying my best not to think about labour, in fact every time I do I get nervous and feel sick.  The labour with my youngest is still fresh in my memory, and to say I am dreading the experience for a third time would be a complete understatement.  I am very nervous and scared.  

After weighing up facts, figures and everything else I have finally made my decision on feeding baby, and I may share this later.  I feel happy with my decision and choice and know it is right not only for me but for my family too.

37 weeks +1


This past week has not really seen any changes from the last update.  I am still getting strong downward surges and Braxton Hicks.  Heartburn seems to be a common thing at the moment, and I seem to have it more than I do not.

To answer the most common question at the moment, No I am not fed up and No I am not ready.  I am not fed up of pregnancy, I am fed up of not being able to do things but not of pregnancy and am more than happy for baby to stay put.  I decided to put together a short video


I am starting to get really tired as I cannot sleep for more than 2 hours without waking up for the toilet.  I also cannot turn over in my sleep and have to wake up to do so.  

Fingers crossed I have another bump update next week as I am not quite ready yet!
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I have been very nervous about today for quite some time.  Today was the day of our 36 week scan, the day that decisions would be made and a day that could have seen Thing 3 arrive into the world earlier than originally thought.

I was very apprehensive waiting for the scan, more so than the 12 week scan when you wonder if you are really pregnant.  They called us into the room and measurements were taken before we were allowed to see Thing 3 again.  Head is still down and low, and their hand is still in front of their face.  I hope they move it before delivery.  Thing 3 was well behaved and it did not take long at all for all measurements to be taken.  Then came the apprehensive wait.

After what felt like hours, the midwife called us into room 4.  She said baby weighs 6lbs and everything was exactly where it should be.  Everything was normal and following the correct chart.  After having all the bloods and routine tests for 36 weeks I was then told to wait for the consultant.  The consultant discharged me from hospital and said that we would just leave things to nature.  Which now means, no planned C section, no induction and I am now allowed to go over my due date.  Of course, if something happens between now and then then this would change, but as things currently stand we just wait and see what happens.

I am really happy and relived, I was dreading the thought of an induction and am just happy that things can progress as normal.  As things currently stand if baby came on time, they would be the smallest of my three that is if all the measurements are correct.

Everything appears to now be in place ready for Thing 3 to arrive, they have even tested their bedside crib out for size this week

bump and bedding

I am slowly feeling more relaxed, now the thought of an induction or C section has been taken away and can enjoy the final few weeks/days of pregnancy.

Bump at 36 weeks

Thing 3 seems really active and has such strong movements, still really dislikes to be touched!  They have frequent hiccups, which I have to say is my favourite movement.  Braxton Hicks are still in full force and getting much stronger with each day.  I cannot quite believe that next week baby is considered full term!


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To say I have been a little worried about this half term would be an understatement.  Normally I have half term all planned including day trips for the girls, but this time things are slightly different.  Pregnancy would not normally stop me, but this time I do not feel up to venturing too far.  Baby is already 3/5 engaged and I actually feel as if they have dropped even more and so I want to stay close to home.  

My youngest daughter asked today if it is going to rain everyday of the school holidays, I can see her point.  It has so far been a very wet, miserable school holidays and trying to find ways to entertain the girls is limiting.  We are now almost half way through and I wanted to capture what we have been up to.  

Our NumberBundle boxes have been amazing at keeping the girls entertained, and a review is coming shortly

big or small?

We have had dress up fun, watched DVD and had a Maya the Bee themed day

bee smiles

We have even got the last few things ready for Thing 3.

bump and bed

Mornings have been spent taking it easy, which makes a welcome change from the normal school rush.  The girls love playing in water and love the chance to have a bath in the morning.  It also gives me time to relax.

daughter after bath

I asked the girls what they wanted to do during half term and one of the requests was to the local soft play.  I miss chasing them through the soft play, but they seemed to have lots of fun running around and even making friends!

play at soft play

Today however I think they had got a bit fed up of playing inside and I got the impression they wanted to ride their bikes!  Whilst we did venture out, they didn't stay out long as the rain came pouring down.

ride bikes

The girls are off to stay with Grandma tomorrow as I have to go into hospital.  I am really nervous about how tomorrow will go but I am trying to look at the positive, another chance to see Thing 3!

Half way through half term already and whilst the weather may have been rubbish the girls seem to be having fun!

This day I love the first half of half term.
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Having been told that I am not allowed to go over my due date there are at most 5 weeks to go until Thing 3 arrives.  I am feeling quite emotional at the moment by this fact.  Having no plans to have another this will be my last baby, unless nature decides otherwise, and so am trying to make the most of every little thing.

I can no longer see my feet, or anything that is on the floor.  The girls find this funny and keep putting things on the floor which I fall over.  J has become very protective and has to know where I am all the time.  Spotty dog is less interested.  

J with Bump

I had my routine midwife appointment this week.  Thing 3 heart beat is still at 140 and it was wonderful to hear as always.  Thing 3 still does not like to be touched so will constantly kick anything that is put near to them, including the monitors.  I was told baby is 3/5 engaged and that bump has dropped.  I am feeling on the large side and do feel as if the bump is low.

bump at just over 34 weeks

My legs are still swollen, as are my feet and ankles.  They no longer look like my legs or feel like my legs.  I was placed on an open appointment at physio, meaning I go if I need to, as there is nothing further they can do until baby arrives.  I am continuing with my exercise and seeing slow improvements but as bump gets heavier I am aching a lot more.

As bump has dropped it also means more frequent bathroom trips, especially during the night.  Heartburn is also increasing at night and is worse if I sleep on my left side.  Braxton Hicks is in full swing, regular and strong as if my body is getting ready.  With such a low bump I also no longer fit into any of my clothes, if I could I would spend all day in my PJ as they are the most comfortable

35 week bump


I have a scan at 36weeks to check the growth of Thing 3.  I am looking forward to seeing them again and my current guess is that Thing 3 is around 6lbs8oz we shall see if I am correct next week!

Cannot believe we have at the most 5 weeks to go!
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Pregnancy brings about many wonderful changes but it also brings about a few embarrassing changes that we perhaps try not to talk about.  These changes are perfectly normal and we should do more to highlight the normality of them.  One such change is incontinence.  This can be caused by a variety of reasons and usually can be rectified after pregnancy.

Around two thirds of women suffer from some form of incontinence during pregnancy.  This can be a leak of urine when sneezing or coughing to a leak or even problems passing urine.  After pregnancy and child birth it is important to exercise the muscles and re strengthen the pelvic floor muscles in order to reduce long term incontinence issues.

Personally, and touch wood, I have not yet had this issue, but I do know a lot of women who have.  A close friend of mine is currently suffering with incontinence after recently giving birth.  Hartmann group recently emailed me to see if I would be interested in reviewing their range of products, however as I have not yet had this issue I declined, my friend however asked me to ask for some samples for her.

Having not tried them myself I can only go on the discussion we have had around them.  The first step is to work out what products you need using the handy selector tool.  This then recommends the products you may need, she was recommenced MoliCare which are pull up briefs and MoliMed which are incontinence pads.

The MoliCare pull up briefs are not the most fashionable of looking items and my friends face said it all when I handed them to her, however she did try them and said they were comfortable and worked.  I guess it is a case of function over fashion with them.  She did say they fitted well and lived up to the walk to and from school, without feeling uncomfortable or leaking.  

MoliCare brief

The MoliMed pads look very similar to sanitary towels, they come in a variety of absorbency dependant on your needs.  My friend stated that the pads were comfortable to wear and caused her no skin irritation.  She also mentioned that they were discreet so that you could not see them through her clothes.  The pads also have a slight shape to them making them fit better inside your underwear.  In her opinion she much preferred these over the briefs.

Overall though two products which lived up to the function they were designed to do.  Both had great absorbency and stopped the embarrassment that leaks can cause.  Both were also discreet under clothing, although the MoliMed was preferred over the MoliCare.

This post is written in collaboration with Hartmann group.  I have not tired the products stated, however a friend who wishes to remain anonymous has.  This post is written around the discussion we had after she tried the products. 
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The final week of January and I turn 34 weeks!  

I got my letter today to confirm my 36 week scan appointment, and it is at this appointment that they will make a decision when and if to induce me.  It is slightly scary to think that in 2 weeks Thing 3 could be here!

The Dr are still monitoring my Iron levels but at the moment it is to continue on the same course of treatment.  Physio have left me on an open consultation as there is nothing further they can do until baby arrives.  I have to go back once Thing 3 arrives and we can begin repair work on the damage to my muscles, and hopefully my hips will stay in place also.

Braxton hicks are coming faster and closer together, there also seems to be a lot of downward force.  I have been woken in the middle of the night with leg cramps which are so painful but all part of the later stages of pregnancy.

Thing 3 is also getting more and more active, which is something I am really going to miss.  I do get a feeling that they are trying to engage but are having issues doing so, I may discuss this with my midwife this week.

I think we are now ready for the arrival of Thing 3, the car seat arrived as did the pushchair and whilst I may not be ready I am getting excited, as are the girls!

34 weeks pregnant

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The final few weeks seem to be flying by.  I have a scan at 36 weeks, and the result of this scan could mean that I am induced that day.  Which in turn means Thing 3 could be here in 2 and half weeks!  I am not sure if I am ready just yet but the decision is now out of my control.  It dawned on me that this is the final week of January which means to get to term I only have 1 month left.

I have lost count of the number of blood tests, physio and midwife appointments I have had these past two weeks.  I had the whooping cough vaccine along with routine blood tests.  They decided my iron was low but wanted to repeat the tests which then resulted in me having to take iron tablets.  The first tablets I was put on I had a very severe reaction and was close to a stay in hospital.  The second set reacted bad but not as bad and finally I am now taking SpaTone which so far I seem to be OK with.

The mornings seem to be spent visiting the surgery or the hospital and the afternoons I spend cuddling my youngest.  I am trying to make the most of the time together just the two of us.  As my iron levels seem to be increasing I am not feeling as tired, but I am still in a lot of pain which is reducing the amount of activities I can do with her.  Bump is also restricting my movements, if I sit too long my legs go very numb and painful.

cuddling youngest

We are doing our best to keep active and get out and about.  We braved the cold weather and an early morning start to volunteer at parkrun.  My eldest accompanied me and helped with the finish tokens

parkrun and bump

Thing 3 has been getting stronger and movements are coming very frequently.  I love feeling baby move and having hiccups.  There is one movement Thing 3 does which the girls did not do and I have no idea what it is, but it feels like they are waving or shaking.  Will see when they are born.


Braxton Hicks are coming thick and fast these past few weeks.  Much more painful than they were with the girls, after a quick tweet many of you also said this happen in their third pregnancy so I felt reassured, thank you.  I think I am also having some early labour symptoms on top of Braxton Hicks.  In addition to Braxton Hicks, I am getting some very strong contractions accompanied with a downward push and lower back pain, they last for about 30-40 minutes and then disappear.

The Glucose tolerance test took place this week, although it should have happened at 28 weeks.  It was certainly not a pleasant experience but not as bad as I was expecting.  Having not heard anything since the test I have been told that this means there is no further action required.  I was expecting this to be the outcome as I have no diabetic symptoms, and I had a HBa1c blood test performed which came back normal.

The midwife was however a little worried about Thing 3, mainly due to the reactions I had had with the iron tablets and the strange movements so sent me to the ward to be monitored.

hospital monitoring

Thing 3 does not like to be touched and so spent the entire time trying to kick the monitor pads off my tummy.  Much to the amusement of the midwives and myself.  

I am finding it difficult to sleep again,  Mainly because I cannot get comfy but also because I keep waking in the night with bad heart burn.  I had a week of not too much pain and a week of agony.

The nursery is now complete, the car seat has been ordered and the pushchair has arrived.  On top of this I have washed and put away the nappies and clothes and even packed my hospital bag.  Feeling rather organised this week, oh and nesting has started to kick in.

Bump at week 33

Not long to go now!
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Writing a birth plan is never easy, how do you plan for something which seems to be impossible to plan for?  

Having had two children of which neither birth went to plan, as such, I am struggling this time around.  For both previous births I had wanted a water birth, and to be honest I still do, but both times I was told this was not possible as the pool had broken.  Therefore my birth plan with the girls went out the window.  

a new baby

I have had two completely different labours, one lasted 7 hours and the other an hour.  The first took 30 minutes of pushing and the second within 5 minutes, she did actually just pop out.  Neither needed assistance and both was on just gas and air.  

Which kind of raises the questions, How do I plan for this birth?

Rather than planning I have decided to look at this slightly differently, more a what I would like than a plan.

1. I would love to have a water birth.  Something I had planned for with the girls and never got, I feel like I missed out and am hoping this time will be my water baby.

2. I am open to any pain relief.  Seriously, I am not against pain relief if I need it.

3. Assisted delivery is fine with the exception of forceps.  

4. I would like a labour similar to my youngest, quick and with a short pushing phase

5. I had no stitches with the girls and would appreciate this time to be the same

6. I would like to be as mobile as possible and trust my instincts as to the best position to labour in

7. I would prefer not to have the injection to deliver the placenta

8. I would like delayed cord clamping

9. Skin to skin is important to me and I want my baby in my arms as soon as I can

Overall though I have one aim and that is to have my baby delivered safely by any means necessary.  As long as my baby and I leave the hospital fit and well, then whatever happens in between to achieve this happens.  
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During my booking in appointment my midwife decided I would need to have a Glucose tolerance test at 28 weeks.  A GT test and not as I heard and G and T test, which would have been far more exciting.  At 28 weeks I heard nothing from the hospital and it was not until today, at nearly 33 weeks pregnant, that my glucose tolerance test took place.

I was a little apprehensive before the test, as in my mind I can not understand why it needs to be carried out.  I have no symptoms of diabetes and my HbA1c levels are completely within normal range.  Never the less I care about the safety and well being of Thing 3 and if they wish to perform said test than there has to be some logic behind it.

The letter from the hospital stated to fast from 11pm, nothing except water.  I was very very grumpy this morning when I could not have my breakfast.  The GT test took place in the hospital and whilst my appointment was at 9.10, I had to wait 40 minutes to be seen.  

The first part of the GT test involves a finger prick blood test, relatively painless and quick.  The next part involves a blood sample.  I am not sure what happened here as my arm would not stop bleeding.  I have had hundreds of blood tests and that has never happened before.  After the blood tests comes the interesting part.

Some hospitals give you an energy drink, Lucozade or flat cola to drink.  All of these I am allergic to, so I got given a gloopy syrup drink.  I say drink but it had the consistency of hair gel, including bubbles.  It glugged into the cup and had to be exactly 113ml to drink.  It had no smell and no taste, but the consistency was horrid.  The best solution is just to do your best and drink it, don't gulp as it makes you feel a bit sick.  After I had drunk it I was told that they could have given me jelly baby sweets instead, wish I had known in advance.  Then you wait for 2 hours.  2 more hours with no food and no drink.

Two hours later I returned to the hospital to have a further blood test.  This time my arm stopped bleeding straight away, and that was it all done.  I was even rewarded with a packet of biscuits.  Those biscuits have to have been the best thing ever, after fasting from 11pm, I finally got something to eat at 12.40pm!  I have been told that results are processed the same day, if there are any issues they will call me tomorrow and if I do not get a phone call everything is fine.  Fingers crossed no call tomorrow!

baby monitor

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Before Christmas March seemed an eternity away.  In my mind I was having a baby in 2016, which may sound silly but it was all happening next year.  We are now at next year and I have hit panic stations.  9 weeks to go, is no time at all.  I do not think I am quite ready yet.  There are still things to finish in the nursery and I have to pack my hospital bag.

Thing 3 is still measuring 2 weeks ahead and I am beginning to feel it all in my lower back.  This week Braxton Hicks have started and they have started really strong.  I hardly noticed them with the girls but for some reason they are really strong this time around.

bump 31 weeks

I have been so thankful for my dream genii this week.  I have needed the extra support at night to keep my pelvis in line and the support for my bump.  I am still in pain but seem to be coping better.  Perhaps it is because I am allowing my body time to recover from the running and walking I did, or perhaps it is due to Thing 3 moving positions, but whatever it maybe I seem to be having more good days than bad.

Having said the above the pain maybe coming and going but the tiredness seems to have returned in full force.  My energy feels depleted by mid afternoon and I do not think the cold dark mornings are helping.  My legs have swollen again, but they seem to do this in pregnancy.  We did have a scan done at the end of 30 weeks and it was so wonderful to see Thing 3.  I cannot stop looking at the photos
  
thing 3 scan

I need to sort a car seat for Thing 3, yes I realise I have left it rather late.  I have a couple I am looking at the moment, the Kiddy Evo Luna fix, Jane Matrix and Cybex cloud Q.  All have the ability to lie flat in the car, which is something I would love the car seat to be able to do.  I am also looking at pushchairs as I would love to start running again, as soon as I get the all clear, and would therefore love a pushchair I can take Thing 3 running with me.  Ideally a pushchair that will also be able to handle the school run and handle daily routine.

I am looking forward to finishing the nursery in the next week or so and packing my hospital bag.  I cannot quite believe we are now down to single figures and there are only 9 weeks to go until we meet Thing 3!  
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My New Year so far can be summed up in 1 photo

sleeping J

I do not know what has happened recently but I feel like a walking zombie.  My energy levels have just disappeared.  After doing something small, like getting dressed, all I want to do is sleep.

We spent New Year Day at my parents house, and I would love to tell you what happened but I fell asleep.  Dinner was lovely the rest of the day is a blur.  The girls didn't seem to mind as they were off having fun with Grandma and Grandad.  I would love to tell you what happened on the 2nd but after helping the girls put on some fancy dress costumes and watch their show I fell asleep


Daddy played some games with them and watched some films.

On Sunday we got up early as we had a very special appointment to keep.  My eldest has not been able to come with me to any of my scans as they are always whilst she is at school.  My youngest however has been to all of them.  We decided that it would be nice to book a private scan so my eldest could see baby, and of course help with the sibling bonding.

The girls were incredibly excited to see baby.  It took them a little while to work out what they were looking at but once the scan was switched to 4D, the girls were amazed.  They saw baby wave, wiggle its fingers and even put a foot in front of the screen.  Baby was very well behaved, although after a little while decided enough was enough and put both hands and a foot in front of their face and would not move.

Every scan we have had so far baby has a hand by its head, this does worry me slightly for delivery.  I did check and apparently it is not attached so baby can move it should they desire.  Obviously it is a comfy position to be in.  The girls loved seeing baby.  We all think baby looks like Daddy and it would appear they currently have no hair.  Also like Daddy.  Current estimated weight of baby is 3lbs8oz which means they are predicted to weigh around 8lbs at birth.  

Thing 3 in 4D

We still do not know if Thing3 is a boy or girl, all we know is that so far baby seems happy.  Fingers crossed things keep progressing as they should.

I am now counting down the days until our next scan at 36weeks.  Not long to go until I see that gorgeous face again.

This day I love a New Year and a sneak peak

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Thing 3 seems to be growing at a very fast rate, and perhaps a little too fast for my frame.  My skin is stretching and added to this the pain I feel from the torn abdominal muscles and displaced hips my bump is in much need of support.  I received a wonderful email from Secret Saviours at just the right moment and was very eager for my Secret Saviours package to arrive.


Secret Saviours is three products in one.  A multitasking support band, day gel and night cream and using them combined has helped to prevent stretch marks in 70% of women.  The support band has special pads which when combined with the day gel help stick to the skin.  The random pattern of the pads helps to prevent stretch marks from forming and helps to support bump and lower back.  

I was a little worried at first regarding this, wondering if the pads would perhaps feel too sticky against my skin or cause irritation.  I was therefore pleasantly surprised when I did wear it for the first time that I really did not know I had it on.  I do reposition the band to get it comfortable for me and my bump and as I still have my piercing in my tummy button I do sometimes have to re adjust in the day.  Somewhere between 8 and 9 hours of wear I do start to get a little itchy so I reapply some more of the day gel which takes the itching away.  I have noticed this more as my bump has got bigger, and so it might be time for me to get the next size up.


The support band does leave a rather random pattern on my skin, which is completely normal


The support band can be washed at 40C but cannot be tumbled dried.  To be honest though it does dry very quickly, I usually leave mine overnight and it is dry for the next morning.  

The day gel has a tacky type texture which is to help the support band pads stick, but you do not notice this once you are wearing the band.  The night cream is a real treat and has a relaxing aromatherapy style smell to it [very difficult to explain in words].  I really look forward to applying the night cream and have to admit to doing so several times in the night as it smells and feels fantastic.

Touch wood I have not yet seen any stretch marks forming and have been using the Secret Saviours products since 26 weeks pregnant.  Obviously the earlier you start using Secret Saviours the bigger benefit you will see.  With only 10 weeks left I am hoping those pesky stretch marks are going to be kept firmly at bay, fingers crossed!
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The end of the year and the end of the second trimester.  The 30th December 2015 sees me turn 30 weeks pregnant and to be honest I cannot quite believe it.  Had someone told me this time last year I would be expecting a baby I would have not believed them.  Christmas preparations have meant I have not had as much time as I would have liked to write down the past few weeks and the last update was at 23 weeks.

At 23 weeks I was diagnosed with diastasis recti, hip displacement and torn abdominal muscles, it perhaps goes without saying that the past few weeks have been spent seeing various physios and specialist and involved a lot of pain.  I have had to hang up my running shoes, and cannot lift anything heavier than what my little finger can lift.  Emotionally the past few weeks have been challenging.  It breaks my heart I cannot pick up my girls and give them a cuddle.  I have to be really careful what I do lift, in the long run though I know it is for the best.

Giving up running has not been easy, I really miss it.  I miss getting out and being active.  I miss walking the dogs, I cannot do it in case they pull, and I really miss my independence.  It has meant a whole lifestyle shift and change in attitude and to be honest this is really difficult.  

I now see the physio weekly and have various exercises to do to try and reduce pain and injury.  At 27weeks I had my ribs manipulated so I could breathe and also my pelvis re aligned.  This was a strange experience as at one point I lost complete control over my legs and could not move them, completely paralysed from the waist down.  Luckily the issue was corrected and my pelvis was twisted back into the correct position.  The pain is less but it is still there.

Thing 3 keeps giving me scare days.  They have a few days of a lot of activity followed by a couple of days of hardly any movement and it is on these quiet days I panic.  I seem to have a niggle in the back of my mind I cannot shake that something is going to go wrong.  No idea why, but I cannot get rid of it and on those quite movement days I really panic.

The midwife has put me on fortnightly check ups, which in some ways is nice as I get to listen to Thing 3 heart beat more often.  It is always 140 bpm, every time without fail.  I am still measuring big, approximately 2 weeks ahead of where I should be.  I have a scan this week to have a look at the weight of Thing3 and another at 36 weeks.  It is at this 36 week scan that a decision will be made as to when I will deliver.  All I know at the moment is it is very doubtful they will let me continue past the 40 week mark and have been told they are likely to induce me around 38weeks.

Work has finally started on the nursery, the walls painted and the flooring has been laid.  The cot has been built and thanks to the generosity of friends Thing 3 even has clothes for the first 3 months.  I have a few pieces of furniture to build and then will share the nursery on the blog.  

We are now owners of a 7 seater car, ready for thing3 arrival.  All we need is a car seat to bring Thing 3 home in.  I think things are slowly coming together and now Christmas has finished we can focus more on getting ready.

This pregnancy has been hard on me and I am hoping that the final trimester will be easier.  Although I am guessing as thing 3 grows in weight and size I may not be quite so lucky.  If anything like the girls I have cramp, braxton hicks and heartburn to look forward to as well.










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As the New Year approaches it suddenly dawns on me that we will soon be welcoming Thing 3 into the world. I know the girls are really excited.  They are already making things for the baby and creating lots of pictures to put up in the babies room.

I have started to look at things for Thing 3 and will start shopping for our new arrival in the New Year. Many people use these last few weeks to organise Christenings and Naming Ceremonies too. This is not something we plan on doing, but both are beautiful ways to welcome a new baby into the community. There are often Christening gifts given at this time too. Gifts that are personalised with the baby’s name and date of birth are so precious. 

I have a lovely portrait of the family from when my current youngest was a baby. I love that photo more than anything! I can’t wait to have another photo done with Thing 3 as a baby. It’s such a lovely way to welcome a baby into the family. It helps to solidify as us a complete unit. Best of all, it will last forever as a reminder of the time Thing 3 first arrived into our family.


This blog was first started as a way to share the girls’ early life. It’s a permanent record of all the fun things we do each day. I’m glad Thing 3 will be born into that. Many parents start up an email account so they can write a few things to their kids. They can then read that as they grow up. There will undoubtedly be lots of questions about things that were discussed too. I just hope I can remember it well enough many years down the line.

I think that birth is such a special moment for Mummy, Daddy and the baby. Like most Mums, I want nothing more than to cuddle my little bundle of joy.  I am hoping things go to plan this time around but I guess we will have to see what nature has planned.  

I am now starting to get very bigger and several people have commented on how I have grown over the last few weeks.  I am in no rush for Thing 3 to arrive, as I want to make the most of this pregnancy.  No matter how uncomfortable I might get.  

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As 2015 begins to come to an end it slowly is dawning upon me that in 2016 we will be adding another addition to the family.  Once Christmas is over with I only have 10 weeks to go at the very most until Thing 3 arrives.  I have been told that I am not allowed to go past my due date although this may change at the scan in February, when a delivery plan is put into place.

I have a few bits and pieces left to get for Thing 3 and the very fast approaching arrival and have been doing a lot of shopping online to find not only the best deals but also places where I can buy everything from.  I much prefer a one stop shop than having to get things from different places.  One such site I have been looking at is Online4Baby who offer everything I need.  



The range available at Online4baby really impressed me as did the 1 hour delivery slots and of course the offers available.  One of the big items I need is somewhere for Thing3 to sleep when they visit my Mum and Dads house.  My Mum used to have a spare cot at her house but we no longer have it.  Not wanting to spend a huge amount of money a travel cot would be perfect.  they could use the travel cot for sleeping but it could also double up as a play pen during the day.  A travel cot can  be folded away after use, meaning it won;t take up as much space as a normal cot would do. 

My Mum also needs toys for Thing3 such as an activity mat and general baby toys.  I have a few from when the girls were little but not many.  In the New Year I plan to look at pushchairs and car seats as this is the final big items from my list.  Having just bought a new 7 seater car we can now accommodate Thing 3 and a pushchair in the car.  We could not have done this in my old car.



Things are slowly coming together, I am hoping the flooring will be finished soon, then I can start unpacking the few boxes of the girls things that are left.  t maybe that I discover I need a few more bits, at least I know where to get them from this time!

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It has been a busy week this week for Thing 3.  Last week the paint from Farrow and Ball arrived for the nursery and we are hoping to paint before Christmas.  I ordered some flooring from Factory direct flooring and was really surprised when I had a phone call saying it was in stock and I could have it delivered the next day!  We haven't yet unboxed the flooring as I cannot lift the boxes but as soon as we have painted we will be putting the flooring down.  Things are slowly taking shape in the nursery. All we need in there now is a rug, which I am on the look out for.  After Christmas I will be making a video room tour of the finished nursery which I am really looking forward to sharing.

Perfect Prep - Tommee tippee

The perfect prep from tommee tippee offers convenience for making formula milk.  A hot shot kills any bacteria, followed by cooler water to make the perfect bottle in under 2minutes.  I can see the perfect prep to be a life saver for those night time feeds.  I attended the launch of the perfect prep a few years ago and was really impressed with it then.  I remember at the time that it would be on the top of my wish list should we ever have another baby.  I am really looking forward to putting the perfect prep to the test when Thing 3 arrives.


Mama Baby Bliss

Mama Baby Bliss offer nurturing and pamper products for Mums to be and their babies.  They have a full range of classes including baby massage and baby yoga and also offer pamper parties.  I received a sample of their 100% natural skin products to help soothe and relax.

At the moment I am in a great deal of pain and so sleeping is a huge issue.  The Mama Baby Bliss products have been a little bit of a life saver for me.  I can have a nice relax to help ease some of the pain I am in, which helps me to unwind.  Whilst I am not a sleep those few minutes to myself are really helping.

The Ooooh Bath soak is really relaxing and it contains essential oils which will help after birth too.  There is a wide range of products available both for antenatal and postnatal and some can be used on baby too.

Thank you Mama Baby Bliss for helping to relieve some of the pain I have been feeling recently.


Others

Finally this week I want to say a big thank you to my friends!  My best friend has kindly given me a Moses basket and stand, changing mat and some clothes.  This is amazing as now Thing 3 has somewhere to sleep when they arrive.  One of my other friends kindly donated a play mat and another a baby chair.  I feel really lucky to have such amazing friends and feel things are slowly coming together for Thing 3. 
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